“It matters not who you love, where you love, why you love, when you love or how you love, it matters only that you love” -John Lennon
What are you seeking?
Are you out there dating so you can feel more connected, passionate, and intimate, yet somehow find yourself feeling more disconnected and frustrated than ever as you navigate online courtship? Modern dating can be one of the loneliest activities there is....which is exactly why I'm here to help.
You don't have to go through it alone. In my experience as a dating coaching and matchmaker, I have seen firsthand that dating can become a path to connecting more deeply and authentically with ourselves and others, a path to learning to resolve the split between our heart and mind that helps us find inner wisdom and blissful, soul-warming love.
Some of us may try to “tackle” our dating like we tackle other things in our life, and find that the strategy that works so well in our professional life, backfires in dating. Our growth as people takes time, as does the building of true trust and intimacy with another. "Tackling" and speeding things up is actually counter productive in dating, and may lead to lots of dates with no real relationships, or three-month firecracker relationships that start out fiery and passionate and fizzle within three months. Think of dating like building a house. You can quickly put up a house and foundation and it will look and seem like a house, but if you didn’t take the time necessary to build a quality foundation, that house will be less sturdy. It might be fine in the short-term, but when under strain or challenge, it will fall apart more quickly.
Deep dating is for those yearning for more than a quick hit of a 3 month relationship. Deep dating is for the seekers, who are searching for deep intimacy and transformation in their lives and relationships. Deep dating is a process approach to dating rather than that "shopping cart mentality" or "machine gun" approach to dating that online dating sites make so easy to do.
Deep dating is an art and could even be your own personal path to awakening.
Click below for more information on my coaching services geared specifically toward men & women.
In working together, we will assess strength and challenge areas, and determine a strategy and customized plan to address your unique needs. In individual coaching session, we might cover:
+Action plans for meeting new people +Online profile creation and editing +Heart opening exercises +Turning expectations into standards +Reframing the dating process +Mindfulness practice applied to dating +Why YOU are a catch +Tools to uncover your values +Communication skills (flirting skills, how and when to be assertive) +Navigating a breakup successfully +What to do and not to do on a first date +Navigating the second, third, and fourth date